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一路點點滴滴
感恩路上遇到的人和事
都成了今日我的一部分

人生有多少個十年
笑看人生
感懷而感知
曾經擁有 也珍惜能夠擁有

這個旅途只有自己最清楚
跟著人群過著日子
收集人生的小感動

似乎青春所剩無幾
我還能為自己做些什麼

-Camille

 

4th Valentine’s day

It was a great weekend! I love festive season, it gives us a chance to take that moment and cherish the relationship u hav with frens/lover/family.

Oh it’s Valentine’s day! – what an expensive day to eat out. But hey, look what my sweet heart did. He can always find me a new place to hav inexpensive good food.

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P/s: Yea that’s my flowers kkk. 4 stalks for le 4th year !! Love it !!! Thanks love! #sgflowerwaytooexp

Okay back to point. It’s Astons at centrepoint, orchard. Around $23 u can have this with almost international level of buffet! (Self claim) hahaha. Button mushroom, salads, fruits, self made vanilla ice cream, drinks many more many more…. all the fruits r all so fresh, and the corns r so sweet. Totally worth it !!! #tandio

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Good environment too ! It is the only Aston branch in Singapore that offers buffet like this. After dinner can go orchard street squeeze in the crowd also not bad ah. Haha.

Then next day plan was actually going to the beach… but we both nua all the way at home….. only at night finally 振作 and had a great korean dinner!

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12 kinds of appetizers! Keep refilling them we ftw hahaha. Opps.

Sunday –

In the morning suddenly 兴起, went grab my sis violin and play for 1hr. Is like after 2 years i touch this piece again? Haha.. well, it was great except that my poor skill gets poorer :/

Then we head to the beach !!

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Posing with my fav hot chocolate.

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Learn the Qian song-yi pose ! And well i m not the 主角. See how my love well do it !!

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Good job love !! XD

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The weather is great – no hot sun so no need to apply sunscreen.

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Had the dinner at the famous Malaysian food street.

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Penang fried kueh tiaw, Klang bak kut teh, Malaysian style rojak. This rojak got jambu somemore. Love it !! Soo full ahh.

Ready to go home now.
Putting on some of the polaroid pics that we took today at the beach for the ending.

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Valentine’s day is good – we slow down our pace to see each other better in heart and enjoyyy that precious moment. :)

Being the RIGHT person.

THE IMPORTANCE OF HAVING THE RIGHT PEOPLE IN YOUR LIFE — James Michael Sama

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One of the things that makes life so fulfilling, is the people we encounter and build relationships with along the way. Any sort of relationship, from a simple chat with our daily mail carrier – to the first meeting of our future spouse, can give us either a moment or a lifetime of happiness.

It can easily be argued that even the most personally fulfilling accomplishment will lose its luster if we don’t have a loved one to share it with. A family member, a friend, or a significant other. These are the people who make our short time on earth here worthwhile.

On the flip side though, we have all met the type of person who literally drains us of our energy. The type who is always finding (or creating) something to complain about. These people serve as a virus to our happiness and can easily destroy it, if we let them.

The problem is that many people are unaware of their ability to cut these people out of their lives. It’s easy to get comfortable, develop attachments, and really not see the damage that their negativity is doing to your life. You may begin to think that there is something wrong with you, perhaps depression, less self-worth, a lack of motivation, or less enjoyment from things you used to love doing.

The wrong people will make you question what you, yourself, are capable of. It’s important to realize the weight they can put on your shoulders, and that these feelings are not coming from within.

Not all of these situations are extreme in the sense of emotional or verbal abuse, but even something as small as discouraging you from pursuing your dreams, making you feel as though you’re not good enough, generally dragging down your morale, etc., can drastically deplete your chances for success and happiness.

The right people will motivate you to become the absolute best version of yourself, without changing who you really are…just by being around you. The right people will be pursuing their own dreams and therefore believe it is possible – so they will encourage you to follow your own; even if they don’t have to say anything to do it.

The right people will be standing next to you not only on the sunny days, but also on the rainy days. In fact, they’ll be the ones holding the umbrella over you.

It’s not just about finding the right people to be around – it’s also about BEING the right person to be around.

Each of us has a limited amount of time here on this earth, and the only truly lasting things that continue after we are gone, are the stories and memories of our existence in the minds of others. The stories told that really matter aren’t going to be about the kind of car you drove, the type of watch you wore, or whether or not your shoes had red bottoms.

They will be about your moral fiber, how you treated those around you, and how you chose to live your life to the absolute fullest.

Your ability to create the most positive, powerful legacy possible, will have much to do with the people you chose to surround yourself with on a daily basis. Choose wisely.

Keywords of the day: Life is too short for people who suck out the happiness of yours.
Why not starting from yourself — BEING that right person :)

19/11 (tues)

Visiting doctor today. Le doctor said a pretty good point!

7.5 hrs sleep is enough for some people only. Some people need more than that eg. 8hrs. How to know that? If you have headache easily/frequently, most likely you are getting not enough/not good enough quality of sleep.

24 hrs per day is forever not enough for me to comprehend the followings:

Work
Family
Friends
Love
Comfortable self time
Sleep
Exercise
Phone time(?)

Goshhhhhhhh! God helps! :s

Yet I guess  I won’t have enough time also even if god gives me 48hrs per day. Orz

Some serious thoughts needed. Hmph.

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Blessed to be :)

Keywords of the day: Too blessed to be stressed

KINA GRANNIS – In Your Arms

Hush Now, Let’s Go Quiet To The Park
Where it first started
Cold NIght, Us Lying In The Dark
I Felt My Heart Was Trying
To Find A Place For You To Stay
A Place Where I’d Feel Safe

Anything we have known
Anything We’ve Forgotten
In The Rain, In The Dark We’ll Lay
In Your Arms, In Your Arms I’ll Stay

Anything we have known
Anything We’ve Forgotten
In The Rain, In The Dark We’ll Lay
In Your Arms, In Your Arms I’ll Stay

Take My Hand, Let’s Go Into The Trees
Behind The Branches, Falling On Our Knees
I Remember Feeling Like This
Part Of Us Would Never Change

Anything we have known
Anything We’ve Forgotten
In The Rain, In The Dark We’ll Lay
In Your Arms, In Your Arms I’ll Stay

Anything we have known
Anything We’ve Forgotten
In The Rain, In The Dark We’ll Lay
In Your Arms, In Your Arms I’ll Stay

Follow Me
We Both Now The Way
It’s Always Been The Same

Anything we have known
Anything We’ve Forgotten
In The Rain, In The Dark We’ll Lay
In Your Arms, In Your Arms I’ll Stay

Anything we have known
Anything We’ve Forgotten
In The Rain, In The Dark We’ll Lay
In Your Arms, In Your Arms I’ll Stay

In Your Arms I’ll Stay
In Your Arms I’ll Stay
In Your Arms I’ll Stay
In Your Arms I’ll Stay

Stay focused

So here is the egg. It depends on how you make your life colorful and stay focused.

As far as I grow, I open my eyes more, things that you thought would never happen to your life did happen, you gotta learn to know, accept, forgive, smile and MOVE ON.

NOthing is bad as long as you are alive. You could turn things to a better one and you actually know you would.

SOmetimes, thing doesn’t need a conclusion, what’s more important than the process.

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突然来感,就想记录下来(想blog的标题永远是最难的事

好久没打华文字,就是很奇怪的感觉,语言的表达能力也变差,真是愧对自己华校出身的背景。

突然来感,就想记录下来。

感1:

中学时,青春活泼的我,每天都不停歇一定一直找人讲话,好像说话不用精力似地。现在的我,却偏向于长时间脑袋思考/静止。能看到我马不停蹄的说话的时候,简直很少吧。以前是:看、听、讲、思;现在是:看/思、听/思、思、讲。所以老朋友们不太习惯这样的我,是正常的。我想有出来见面聚会几次的也习惯了呗。

感2:

发现自己甚少和老友聚会,为什么呢,我深刻的检讨了一下:
1)懒得出门
2)交通不便(在新山,总是要麻烦人载,很不好意思)
3)妈妈唠叨(“没时间回家,有时间出门”/“一有空就乱跑,让家人担心”)。是的,从来我都把妈妈的这些话在事后才消化。随着年龄增长,我想我比较明白父母心了。。)
4)课业繁忙(朋友的假期都落在我的开学、考试准备。。。。。。。。。无言><)
5)觉得好友不需要常相见也能继续爱彼此<3 (遇到困难/开心事再来分担/分享)
6)时间不够分><(比较apply to year 1,2,3)
7)有一段时间发生了一些事很down,所以少联络人+不想出门(也只有几位朋友知道,这件事其实也改变我很多)
8)所以久了也发现不太有人会叫我出去 (“我们以为你很忙。。。” ><)

感3:

总是在人生态度最积/positive的时候做出一些自己本身认为蛮勇敢/勇气可嘉的事就跑去报名什么什么camp helper,什么什么volunteer,或什么什么meeting。然后在event要来临的前一天就一直!@#¥%^&*念自己为什么报名了/好想呆在家里/尤其早上7点起床时,就会骂自己自作孽,要不然可以继续睡。。。可是人生就是这么回事,如果不去做这些事,到头来就会后悔,觉得自己好浪费人生、浪费光阴。

感4:

有些事情,真的要到了一定的岁数/有一定的阅历了,才会真正明白。现在嘴巴上说的明白,以后再看,就会知道是nonsense。

感5:

其实有很多朋友,不等于有很多朋友。从前一直出来聚会热热闹闹的朋友->在现在比较少和朋友们联络的情况下,还有在联络的,会主动找你的、主动关心你的、让你不自觉感动的,这些,就是会珍惜到永远的朋友。

 

xxx

 

人生到了每一个阶段,都会对身边的事做一番感恩。就是突然感悟,然后感动,然后珍惜。你们不知道哪一天你们的一个微笑、一句关心、一个fb message、一个鼓励、一封简讯、一段对话、一个举动、一个comment可以对我有多大的影响力,you will never know how you have once been so important to mee <3

大爱在我生命中的每一个你们:)

How to get away tiredness?

Feeling tired easily? Energy is so so so easy to be used up! :(
Do the following checklist!

 

1) Always get a good meal, good fruit and drink enough water?
– Have enough nutrition, avoid low blood sugar level and don’t get dehydrated!

 

2) Sufficient intake of essential Vitamins?
– Lack of calcium, iron and vitamin D in your body may also result in fatigue!

 

3) Have enough sleep? Do you always wake up at the midnight or dream every night?
– Have enough sleep doesn’t mean you have a good quality of sleep, to achieve that, get rid of stress and sleep at a comfy manner! (clean bed, well-ventilized room, etc. etc. )
Avoid caffeine if it kills you by insomnia!

 

4) Digit on the weighing machine keeps increasing!?
– Yea, get rid of excessive fat in the right way! ALL YOU NEED IS EXERCISE AND GET RID OF UNHEALTHY FOOD KAY. /ok i know it is hard :p

 

5) Anxiety? Depression? Tension?
– Find something interesting to do, people just need to take a break no matter how busy they are! remember to take a break kay!
– Always in the POSITIVE manner :) /it is hard but this is the deal kay! believe that you can do it! (and you will do it)

 

6) Is your personal belongings looking so dark?
Colour does matter! Dark colour (X) Light colour (:D) Light colour can relax your tension and make you feel energetic!

 

 

One last thing: Where does Energy come from? Carbohydrates? Ok, to be precisely, Energy comes from COMPLEX CARBOHYDRATES, not simple carbohydrates. Complex carbohydrate has higher nutritional values. Simple carbohydrate will turn to fat really fast and it does not really provide you with the ‘real energy’ you need.

SIMPLE SUGAR:
Table sugar, products with white flour, honey, milk, yoghurt, candy, chocolate, fruit*, cake, jam, biscuits, molasses, soda and packaged cereals.
*Fruit does contain other essential vitamins that you need!

COMPLEX SUGAR:
Spinach, yams, broccoli, beans, zucchini, lentils, skimmed milk, whole grains and many other leguminous plants and vegetables.

 

Little note:

With the age increases, one should really take care of their health, don’t overlook any single thing in your life ;)

所谓幸福·快乐,两门学问

所谓幸福·快乐,两门学问自定义。

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第一问 ·· 幸福

要珍惜两个人的缘分,不是简单的事,但是,人越简单,这事就更容易了;

幸福很单纯,所以要很单纯的人容易获得。

你和他本来没有相同之处,外表不相像,性格也是南辕北辙,一旦爱上了,年深日久,你会惊讶你的眼睛有点像他的眼睛,他的微笑也有点像你的微笑。

你们走路的步伐也有点相似,说话的语气也愈来愈相像。他的脖子上有一颗痣,一天,你发现自己脖子上也多了一颗痣,原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。

你本来喜欢脚踏实地的人,而他一向比较轻佻,但你们爱上了,他竟会不知不觉变成一个老实人,这个改变,连他自己也不曾察觉。

他本来喜欢活泼的女孩子,却爱上了拘谨的你,这些日子,你竟愈来愈活泼,你差点认不出自己。我们会逐渐变成对方理想中的人,这种改变,绝对不是刻意的。两个人愈爱得长久,气质也愈来愈相近,你曾经以为他不是你梦寐以求的那种类型,然而,有一天,你惊讶地发现,他已经变成你喜欢的那种类型,你不必再到处寻觅,他就是你要找的人。

是否也有同样的经历,有一天,你会惊讶的发现,那个天差地远的人,什么时候已经变成你喜欢的那种类型,何必再寻觅,他就是你要找的那个人。

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第二问 ·· 快乐

Being happy doesn’t mean that everything is perfect. It means that you’ve decided to look beyond the imperfections.

Happiness is acceptance ♥

是从一位学姐那儿看来的,快乐是接受,因为你决定接受了不完美,所以你快乐。

几乎,世上没有一件事是完美的,但是是否接受的不完美和更快乐是成永远的正比?

哪里才是极限,所谓的maximum point of imperfections to be accepted.

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都是一门学问,也只能由你自己来定义!

明白了吧。

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